Dive into the heartfelt journey of self-acceptance and empowerment with "Ilusad suured tüdrukud," penned by the charismatic Estonian backing vocalists Kaire Vilgats and Dagmar Oja. This book is a candid exploration of their lives, both under the dazzling spotlight of the Eurovision stage and within the confines of their personal struggles with self-destructive patterns and emotional insecurity.
Kaire and Dagmar, renowned across Estonia for their vivacious personalities and full-figured grace, are devoted mothers and women who have embraced their feminine essence and body image, becoming icons of self-acceptance with the help of media. Their story is an open-hearted narrative of finding oneself amidst the challenges of music and daily life.
The roles they play are multifaceted: radiant performers, sensual and attractive women, caring mothers, grateful daughters, loyal friends, and supportive colleagues. They share how they navigate these roles with dignity, confronting the challenges of self-worth through the shadows of broken relationships, eating disorders, depression, fasting, and self-therapy.
Kaire reflects, "My weight mirrors my mental state. My goal is to have the courage to be myself." Dagmar acknowledges, "I realize that sometimes my body expands due to my laziness and comfort. But I've made peace with myself. My weight has always been a problem for others, not for me."
Esteemed Estonian singer Ivo Linna endorses their spirit, "I love them dearly! They are primeval women. They embody feminine kindness, strength, motherhood – everything a woman can offer. On stage, they are a wall to lean on. They don't complain, and that's what matters most!"
Compiled by Anneli Urge, "Ilusad suured tüdrukud" is not just a book; it's an invitation to embrace your true self, to love and value who you are, and to rise above societal expectations with poise and confidence. Join Kaire and Dagmar on their inspiring journey, and let their story encourage you to embark on your own path of self-discovery and self-love.
